I came across the following post and it reminded me of a point I kind of glazed over in the Percentage of Quality post.
Hello Negro, Would You Date Yourself? « The Comeback Girl
One of the things I really identified in this quote was that “‘everything attractive, “monied”, gainfully employed and single AIN’T eligible or even ‘date-able’”.
While I mentioned it in a comment, but not in the post, this is an important fact. Just because a girl (or guy) had the education and stuff I talked about it, if she is not in a good place mentally, she still is a bucket-head.
Would I date myself right now … thats a good but tough question. Definitely feel established enough in my career and education for any woman, but I don’t even know what I want exactly right now and prolly still got a bit of soul searching to do (luckily I’m still young) … so who knows.
Anyways … Glad there is a female with a similar thinking.
Hey SBM–I’m excited about the three people who read my blog….on dating yourself. I think its most def. a process. Check ya later.
That’s such a good question and really forces people to look at themselves first before they jump into a relationship with anyone. So many ppl want qualities in a mate that they don’t possess but still feel justified in demanding these things.