Comments on: Sickness: Taking care of your boyfriend/girlfriend http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/ Dating, Relationships, Marriage ... and all that good sh*t Thu, 28 Aug 2008 20:37:27 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Hunnie.Wright http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-871 Hunnie.Wright Thu, 27 Mar 2008 16:49:38 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-871 right on! LOL right on! LOL

]]> By: SBM http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-857 SBM Wed, 26 Mar 2008 18:43:08 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-857 @Hunnie: Lol ... I might have to frame that and put that up in my house. I'll tap to it every time I have company (the hidden "act right" sign). @Hunnie: Lol … I might have to frame that and put that up in my house. I’ll tap to it every time I have company (the hidden “act right” sign).

]]> By: Hunnie.Wright http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-855 Hunnie.Wright Wed, 26 Mar 2008 18:29:55 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-855 @ SBM As a final note--a quote for you!(i've actually been meaning to add my personal fave quotes to my blog but been procrastinating) This happens to be MY SECOND favorite quote of ALL time that I will continue to carry with me because it rings TRUE for ALL people you may encounter in life: "When someone shows you who they are the first time, BELIEVE THEM!" -Maya Angelou But I think you've already got the hang of it! :-) @ SBM

As a final note–a quote for you!(i’ve actually been meaning to add my personal fave quotes to my blog but been procrastinating)

This happens to be MY SECOND favorite quote of ALL time that I will continue to carry with me because it rings TRUE for ALL people you may encounter in life:

“When someone shows you who they are the first time, BELIEVE THEM!”

-Maya Angelou

But I think you’ve already got the hang of it! :-)

]]> By: Brittany http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-791 Brittany Sun, 23 Mar 2008 18:17:55 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-791 I think if you care enough you will take care of almost anyone. I can be selfish at times but I know how to take care of people when they are sick. I think if you care enough you will take care of almost anyone. I can be selfish at times but I know how to take care of people when they are sick.

]]> By: SBM http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-774 SBM Fri, 21 Mar 2008 18:18:34 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-774 @Comeback: I don't make blanket statements if thats what your implying. Otherwise I would have called all black women some pretty bad things ... lol ... but I'm happy. I think you really hate it when I mention your name in a post. Its cause I love you ... don't get mad. @Comeback: I don’t make blanket statements if thats what your implying.

Otherwise I would have called all black women some pretty bad things … lol … but I’m happy.

I think you really hate it when I mention your name in a post. Its cause I love you … don’t get mad.

]]> By: The Come Back Girl http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-769 The Come Back Girl Fri, 21 Mar 2008 17:35:21 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-769 "I see Comebacks argument that its a lot easier for guys, but to say that no woman can detach her self from sex is a blanket statement" You're right because apparently men (some men) have a hard time with that too. hmmmm SBM??? “I see Comebacks argument that its a lot easier for guys, but to say that no woman can detach her self from sex is a blanket statement”

You’re right because apparently men (some men) have a hard time with that too. hmmmm SBM???

]]> By: SBM http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-767 SBM Fri, 21 Mar 2008 17:22:18 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-767 @Comeback: Me the victim. I'm hurt. Why am I always being attacked. Oh God ... I'm gonna cry. HA! Man. Maybe I should stop bitching ... naw @Dark & Stormy: I feel you. I see Comebacks argument that its a lot easier for guys, but to say that no woman can detach her self from sex is a blanket statement ... like all Black Women are selfish ... and I'll be the first to say that this story is about one woman ... not all. @Comeback: Me the victim. I’m hurt. Why am I always being attacked. Oh God … I’m gonna cry.

HA! Man. Maybe I should stop bitching … naw

@Dark & Stormy: I feel you. I see Comebacks argument that its a lot easier for guys, but to say that no woman can detach her self from sex is a blanket statement … like all Black Women are selfish … and I’ll be the first to say that this story is about one woman … not all.

]]> By: dark & stormy http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-766 dark & stormy Fri, 21 Mar 2008 17:14:35 +0000 http://www.singleblackmale.net/2008/03/20/sickness-taking-care-of-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/#comment-766 "I’ve never seen it successfully happen. Those women who pretend it can work don’t have successful relationships-because on some level they are waiting for the lightbulb to go off in his heart. IT DOESN”T HAPPEN." Key word in that first sentence is "I", meaning you CBG. You cannot speak for every woman. It does and has worked for me because I am not looking for a lightbulb to go off in the heart of a jumpoff. That's because I am not lying to myself about what could be or should be with that person... There are plenty of chicks holding their breath for the wrong person or reasons- maybe you've been that chick before. I have been that chick when I was young, blind, and could not see. Antidater said it perfectly. Detach. Not everyone can handle that but some of us can. “I’ve never seen it successfully happen. Those women who pretend it can work don’t have successful relationships-because on some level they are waiting for the lightbulb to go off in his heart. IT DOESN”T HAPPEN.”

Key word in that first sentence is “I”, meaning you CBG. You cannot speak for every woman. It does and has worked for me because I am not looking for a lightbulb to go off in the heart of a jumpoff. That’s because I am not lying to myself about what could be or should be with that person… There are plenty of chicks holding their breath for the wrong person or reasons- maybe you’ve been that chick before. I have been that chick when I was young, blind, and could not see.

Antidater said it perfectly. Detach. Not everyone can handle that but some of us can.

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