Whew … what a past few days. Those of the fam who follow the day to day drama on here know its been a little crazy. The comments section got shut down temporarily while I gained some focus in life … but it should be good now. I really want to encourage all the lurkers who have been turned off by the unwieldy and exclusive nature of the comments section to come on back and speak. I’ve decided to take an active role in maintaining a healthy comment section ABOUT THE POST … and will soon add a forum to encourage talks for the day to day randomness … expect that next week.
So … for my rants … well I only have one … a little story about a person I know.
Let me preface this by I hate liars.
I have lied myself and will probably lie in the future … but I try and keep it within a normal level. But some lies you discover … and they just make a person seem crazy.
So … I came across a blog one day. I liked the content and decided to subscribe and follow. I would go over … comment … and interact with their readers.
Soon … I started to notice some things. First I realized some of the commenters came from another blog that I had been introduced to by someone I used to date and still talked to regularly. Lets call this person … BT. So I go and ask BT … “hey … do you know this new blogger” just to be told “no … I don’t know her”. OK … I move on.
This new blogger finds my site shortly after and starts commenting. She is welcomed with open arms to the family.
Soon … I start notice the usage of these really off-brand words that BT used to say during our 7 month on and off dating/sex stint. Words I have never heard any other person use. In addition, this blogger, RD, seems to know me very very well … claiming she obtained all her information through my site. I mean stuff I don’t write or comment on.
So I email this person saying “you remind me of this girl I used to date. Did you go to X university or know anyone from there”. I hear back shortly … “I went you Y down the street. Maybe I know her, but who knows”.
OK … who cares.
Weeks pass …
Soon … RD takes an interest in another commenter on this site. This commenter is good personal friend of mine, TK. TK calls me “I’m trying to get at RD from your site. What’s up with her … I think I like her. We been chatting over email … but let me know what you know”. I tell him “go for it” and that I think she is friends with lover turned friend BT … and I tell him I’ll go ask about her … as a good friend does.
Before the conversation ends … TK tells me this girls heights and measurements … I think … “huh … reminds me of this girl I used to date …”
I talk to BT about RD … saying “TK is interested and they’re talking over email right now”. I ask all about her. She goes and finds out the real identity of RD, but can’t tell it to me because RD wants to remain anonymous. I push … but BT wont’ budge. She says this person just starting working at the same company and now lives with her temporarily. She invites me and TK to a party (which we don’t go to) and says my friend should date RD. End of that … I relay the information to TK.
All the while I am investigating for my friend … more and more seems out of place. Me and BT talk on IM a lot … on two separate occasions I notice that conversations I have with BT end up as blog posts on RD’s website. When I ask BT about this and jokingly claim “your RD aren’t you” … I hear “your so crazy SBM … no I’m not. She is my friend and we talk.”
Not letting sh*t go … I go through my comments. BT posted one comment ever using her real name … leaving me an IP. The IP address is the exact same as RD’s. Hmmmmmm
**For the non nerdy, every computer on the internet has a unique identifier called an IP address. By itself, it doesn’t tell a whole lot … but its like a fingerprint you leave on any website you visit**
I ask BT … she says “we work in the same building and she lives at my house … so we’re using the same internet”. Sure … I bite … OK … fine.
Weeks pass …
BT blows up at me over IM. Making insults to my character, saying I’m a bad person, and the usual sumbitches and whatnot. There is a specific word she called me that day … a term she coined on the fly.
The next day RD writes an entire post about it.
At this point … I’m like WTF.
I call TK. “You remember RD from the blog right?” “Yeah” he responds. “What ever happened to her … because I think she is falsifying her identity”. “Really? She gave me her name and phone number”.
Her name is …
Pause … RD has told me over email she is not BT. BT has told me repeatedly she is not RD and is adamant about this fact. Peaking into the future … RD later launches a full on assault on my character because I think she is BT.
Back to the story …
“BT”
WTF … this person has the exact same name.
“OMG man … thats her name … whats her phone number”
We take turns completing BT’s cell phone number. BT’s cell number in my phone is listed as RD’s cell number in his.
“I say … are you sure man … are you sure that’s her”. TK says “Yeah … I called 3 times … the voicemail says ‘this is BT … leave a message’. I’m sure that’s her name”.
How is it that RD just so happened to give TK the EXACT SAME NAME AND NUMBER as BT, while attempting to arrange a date? Why is it that RD is adamant about not being BT … to the point where she publically attacks my character and calls me emotional? Why?
What type of person creates a fake persona, brings this persona to my site with a fake back story, emails me from this fake person’s email address, and then goes and holla’s at my friend as this fake person … all while the real person creates some crazy story about their mystery friend?
Let’s Recap.
- Same phone number
- Same first name
- Same height and measurements
- RD Blog posts pertaining to talks with BT
- Same IP address
- Same diction
I will admit … I could be wrong. RD may just have been playing some game and gave TK her “friends” name and phone number as a joke. If that was the case and can be proved … I’m sorry. Until then … RD is blocked (and ya’ll n****s in the comments know who I’m talking about) … and I’m done with this situation.
The only reason I tell this story is because RD has tried hard to make me seem like some crazed lunatic becuase she got blocked from my site. I wasn’t going to confront her or say anything (just block her) … but how do you do some dumb shit like this … and get mad your ass got caught and blocked. Why are you pretending to be two people? Why are you emailing me from two different email accounts?
This same person, BT, found my site while we were dating. She asked me offline “are you SBM” … I told her yes. Apparently returning the favor was too much.
The closing of the comment sections had nothing to do with this … that was a result of complaints from readers.
It didn’t have to go here … but when you want to publically insult me and try and rally people around this fake persona and call me crazy … you get put on blast.
I actually got more evidence … but this is like my longest post ever already.
Whew … I feel gotdamn better … now ya’ll go ahead …
RANT!
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Damn thats some fucked up shit man, i havent come here often enough to know who you are referring to but man thats just jacked up and im sure it will eventually come to light who said person is….Anyway
My rant is this..
I dated this guy one time and then he did the dissapearing act on me, stopped returning my phone calls and stopped answering his phone…so I was kinda bummed cuz I blamed myself and felt rejected and all that..
Well I am talking to a girl (I’m bi) and it just so happens that she is talking to this guy too….I was shocked and a little jealous like damn what a small world and damn why he aint want me?!!? So today I try and add him to my messenger list and he rejected my request. It was like a slap in the face, I been kinda bummed about it all day, I even did a blog post about it, shits just fucked up man, just all the way fucked up!
im gonna need major starbucks on several accounts. ), i wanna know who the left out people are (wait i already do LOL). And why are you still pandering to them? You closed the comment section because? I can’t wrap my head around that. Life is really as hard as you make it. I can’t believe a person has a problem with feeling exlcuded by a dam$n BLOG. I still say its a personal problem. If BLOGS leave you out…i can’t imagine HOW LIFE IS TREATING YOU. For real for real.
Secondly, Im confused and hungry, RD, BLT, big mac, supersize fries. I like you all. And again being an adult is about being HONEST, THE PURGE, and the forgiveness. Again I personally believe that your blessings are in direct proportion to your ability to LET GO. You don’t have to marry the people who you feel have wronged you, but harboring resentment creates…um..ulcers.
But alas, it is your blog. I got a ton of work to do today.
Grati-rants
1. I am grateful that even as G7 or G8 or however many they got now, meet, I still am making a good living. God’s grace. Nothing but God’s grace…
2. I am grateful for breath for thought for all the things that go on in my body that allowed me to wake up and give thanks for it all.
3. I am grateful for the celibates. The Novel writing contest is dedicated to all the members. All of you will be the cast of characters, I have changed the names to protect ..the..abstinent.
***also check your emails yall. If i have left anyone out i did not intend it. This weekend I would like to do it in Akua’s sister’s honor. Partly because the law of intention is strong when more on the same page for the same cause. And secondly to bring her sister safely home. She replied last night and gave the ok.***
“I have lied myself and will probably lie in the future … but I try and keep it within a normal level.”
im re-reading this utter confusion. But dude. A lie is a lie. There are no “normal lies” and not normal lies. fyi.
btw..remember when i was trying to third eye the memory foam situation and didnt’ want to “connect all the dots to respect the site. Mama Comeback did not just fall off the turnip truck. LOL
“Im confused and hungry, RD, BLT, big mac, supersize fries”
I can already forsee a funny laughable day ahead..
Ok my riffs n rants
My best friend bless her heart. I am so glad I have that person I can go to and be real with. We have been cool for a good minute and have both had our ups and downs, but no matter what, we always encourage each other to stay strong. I love my girl through everything. Just as girls do, we get jealous, keep secrets, and hate on each other from time to time, but at the end of that day we laugh and say you still my girl and mean it. This is a tribute to my best friend I know you at work but I just wanna tell you how much I love and appreciate you!
2. I get to pull a Nicki today yay!
3. I think I paid way to much to get my oil changed in my car but Its an oldie so I gotta do what i gotta do to keep it running.
Thats it!!!! oh yes and i have a date tonight!!! wooooohooooo!!
oh yes and, this phrase my friend used to coin when he played basketball and someone would get a ball blocked and they would fall out all over the floor and call foul..
and I am gonna say it today to SBM in my best voice about this post. eh heh hem
OVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR DRAMATICCCCCCCCCC
end.
1. I’m convinced people have way too much time on their hands. Hobby much?
2. I love having friends in high places. A friend who works as one of Obama’s political directors, sent me some good news yesterday!
3. The most fabulous assistant I could ever have at work is leaving today. She was more than my assistant, she was like a mother. They were laughing at me b/c normally I have to play the ’stoic’ role at work, but I was a big cry baby. Btw, SBM, she loved the peach cobbler..lol..
4. Why is it that those who always proclaim to be drama free are usually the ones causing it?
5. Facebook? I used to hate it, until I was reunited with a higschool crush, who graduated a year before me. I’m not the tomboy boy, athlete he remembered. All I could say was “How you like me now?”.
6. I checked my PO box yesterday, and it pays to be a blogger. Free tickets? Press passes? WOW! Maxwell here I come!!
“Free tickets? Press passes?”
how can i be down?
Fungke I got a hair cut 2 days ago, everybody says it looks real nice and asking is it a wig lol. Its not super long but has grown and the hair dessor did a fine job on me. I agreed to go to her every two weeks now. Things are looking up my dear!
@Mikki: Shoot, if they weren’t free, my ass wouldn’t have gone…The ticket prices were/are CRAZY!
See, progress is good! I’m glad I could offer suggestions to help out!
*Crickets*
now would be a good time for the lurkers to appear…….
Sounds like she’s a step ahead of Jazmin Sullivan to me…Fake ID’s may very well turn out to be the new “busting windows.” SMH
Crap rants:
1. My boss has me….. (dare I say it?) actually working this morning.
2. Being in a plethora of weddings is NOT the business. Everyone thinks their wedding is more important that the others.
3. My friends are getting married off… where will that leave me?
4. Chem quiz Monday, History take home test due Tuesday, Chem Lab TEST Wednesday. I’m ready to pull my hair out.
5. I keep having dreams about having to rush to the plane for Miami.
Blessings:
1. God took me from an ugly duckling to a butterfly (LOL!)
2. In times where the economy is failing, my GOD provides. I’m not worried about anything.
3. I’m going out for Martinis tonight.
4. I have succeeded to remain celibate after spending a weekend with two guys (one of them whom tried me. [they can't help it!]
5. I’m a pretty gifted girl.
COMEBACK: Email me: latoya.proctor@yahoo.com
My rant:
1. whiny ass men who swear they aren’t emo, when they really are. Own your emotions fellas.
2. territorial men who have no territory to protect. Learn to live and let go fellas.
3. internet cowards who can be bold online but not in person. Let all us bloggers choose to either have an alter ego, or a real identity. If you mix the two, don’t take comments personally because you never know if the commenter is talking to you or your blog ego.
4. Long distance relationships - i am too practical to think that they can work but a few couples are giving me hope.
5. Bills suck ass.
6. Working out is fun, but diets suck.
7. I absohate trimming my hair. I have a phobia of scissors and think that even if i cut 1/4 of an inch, that i have somehow gone bald.
Rants for the week (not too many raves…been one of those weeks):
Why did Mustang Sally pick this week to act up when I had so many things to do–so now I have no wheels until I get it fixed.
Why is my ex-boyfriend now friend in Florida more concerned about getting my car fixed than the guy I’m seeing here—new guy will be getting the boot.
Why can’t folks mean what they say and do what they mean?
Why is McCain hell bent on dissing Obama with words like “That One?” People do and say some hateful things sometimes. His true colors are showing brighter than a peacock and I see three letters - K-K-K flying underneath.
Why is life too short? Every time someone’s dies it just reminds me of how precious life is and how short our time here is. It also reminds me that a lot of things people bicker about isn’t even worth it–in the bigger scope of things, the b.s. that goes on don’t even matter. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
More rants:
- My body is tired from work this week. Should be pretty good after today … but we’ll see.
- Me and my friend promised to stop dating crazy chicks back in 2006. He found a good gf is happy … apparently I just couldn’t figure out the hang of it.
- People who are caught in the lie … and still won’t own up to things … man … that’s special.
- I’m getting a new roommate this weekend who brings a bigger tv and a dining table. Should be fun.
- Really needs to get the day started.
Ok that’s the most jacked up story I’ve ever heard (ok not ever, but that’s just an expression I use a lot). All I gotta say is why?? There’s enough garden variety drama in the world without having to create the super deluxe variety.
I’m not ranting today… It would take too long and I’m ready to start my weekend on a positive note.
And glad to hear there’s going to be a solution to the off topic commentary. I’ve kind of fallen off cuz I felt like it was pointless to comment anyway because it was just gonna get lost in the mess. Y’all are cool and all but I don’t need to read about everything going on in everyone’s life. That’s what Twitter is for….check it out.
Good Morning Folks!
@Mikki
“OVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR DRAMATICCCCCCCCCC”
I KNOW u not talkin’. lol. that’s a phrase for u…all up n through. And, I thought that was a wig too, lol. looks nice! u switched to the cooch cream?
@Comeback
Thank you for that for real for real about lurking/shy bloggers in the “real” world.
@SBM
I am shocked and appalled by such behavior. *crosses arms* But, you’ve gotten past all of it right…keep the names out your mouth and off the blog. Have a nice day.
@Nicki
“God took me from an ugly duckling to a butterfly”
what kinda effed up genetics did u just describe - didn’t the duckling turn into a swan? (lol)
oh oh, rants right? um…
same thing as before - being a single parent is the pits.
carry on…
One last one:
- I also hate people who lie to my commenters. As much I we have our back and forths … I do truly love every crazy one of ya’ll … so for someone to start lying to ya’ll to make friends (celibacy club my ass! It wasn’t me … but it was someone) … something just seems wrong about that.
OK … that’s it … I’m not speaking on it anymore. I’m good.
Yikes. That story was painfully detailed. Blog drama? Who knew?? This is supposed to be fun.
As always, I’m sooo happy it’s Friday!!!
Rants:
-Sprint is on that bull and I plan to get some freedom papers and jump ship. I can’t take it anymore!
-Homecoming season is upon us and dare I say, I’m just not in the spirit this year. What’s wrong with me??
-I have an old-fashioned crush on a guy and it’s driving me crazy. Having a crush sucks. Im’ starting to really like him. And he actually makes me nervous. That NEVER happens. I hate it. I feel like a high school girl or something.
@Cuzzo: LOL. You are right… that didn’t make sense. My mind is on my boss today. He’s bananas… but that’s all I’m gonna say… don’t want to make anyone feel intimidated or unwanted.
@SBM: Thanks for the love. Back to ya.
@SBM
I’m gonna curb myself until you get the forum up and running. As I was about to reply to another commenter, I figure this is how all the lunch table chat begins.
@ SBM is sombebody lying AGAIN on their vajay jay???
i do not wanna have to third eye anybody’s “situation” AGAIN.
@Comeback: I said no more out of me.
@Cuzzo: Go ahead … the forums aint up yet … have at it.
@SBM
“I’m good.”
you sure now? I can feel an “…and another thing” coming up.
today feels really somber.
fyi: all the initials in the scenario above have me completely lost. I thought i knew what was going on, but i totally dont. womp womp to FeFe
@FeFe
I’m gathering that a girl that SBM used to date and remained friends with was lying to him and his real-life homey (whom she wanted to date) about being a certain blog persona.
pretty much
in a nutshell
makes sense?
@Comeback
awww…woo woo woo, woo woo woo. It’s gone be alright.
*Stay tuned for more “As the Blog Turns”*
@cuzzo: thats what i thought, but i kept getting the characters (RD and BT) confused. so i still dont know what she was “lying” about…
Hey, all!
@SBM: I tend to frown upon lying, too.
@Better Than Most: I feel you on that 3rd rant; see my first below.
–Gave up on the guy I like. Gonna focus on the guy who likes me. Ladies, any suggestions?
–Planning my Election Day Bash! Lots of food, alcohol, and pundits! (And, yes, I will be taking the day off on Nov. 5)
–When Obama wins, please believe I’ll be in DC for all of inauguration week! YES WE CAN!!!!!!
Wow… that’s all I have to say. When i started commenting here I had no clue in the world that there could be so much drama on a blog… hope that all ends up okay eventually.
i have pretty much got all my rants out my system yesterday… i just typed that an in the five minutes between then and now i have come up with rants. dang i need a happier life
1. i wanted to sleep in today. i have been putting it mass amount of overtime and sleeping very little all week. i wanted to sleep in but i have been up since 8 am
2. i am still pretty salty about not getting bears tickets for my birthday i know it’s trivial but it bothers me
3. why dont people at work respect me? i am their superior when i tell them to do something they should do it not complain to their boss that i just told them to do their job.
4. again (i ranted about his yesterday but again…) why can’t people read and follow directions?
5. my dog won’t stop whining and i have no idea why, she has food, she has water, she was just outside and went to the bathroom…. what does she want??
okay i am going to finish getting ready for work now and will probably add more ish later.
Rants:
1. As much as I’d like to enjoy this weekend, I have the week from hell coming up. A final, a presentation, a paper due AND I’m in a wedding that falls on the same day as a suprise party that I have to sing in. Phew - I need a personal assistant!
2. The dress for the wedding I’m in next weekend is LILAC. In freaking October?!? I’ll only have to wear it for 4 hours and I’m happy for my girl so I can be a fashion victim for a bit.
Blessings:
1. My boyfriend completed his PT test AND increased his overall score. I’m so proud of my baby!
2. I cried last night after we made love; it was just THAT good. (sorry celibacy club members)
wtf. I feel like a natural disaster victim trying to find their home and family.
@ Daisy: awwwww so sweet. I love love.
@ Humble_One: just be glad you missed yesterday. You got to evacuate. I was standing on the roof with a sign.
@FeFe: Girl, it’s great! But sometimes I make myself sick…lol.
@Cuzzo: i think that the main reason I was having trouble following the story is because I personally know the entire story as well. and its hard to hear such a twisted account of the situation. Funny how when emotions are involved, the truth is shaved and victms are made. but since i am not attached to the situation, but still know about it, i can look at it objectively and know who is inflating reality and being succumbed by feelings.
the aforementioned story that SBM wrote is a dramatization.
Man, there is always some soap opera ish in SBMville. And I missed it all…damn.
8th’s rants:
- It is 11:00 am, and I’m already ready to go home.
- I feel like too many guys are trying to bone, and not enough are trying to get to know me. This makes me angry.
- I’m tired of coming home to an empty house.
- I gotta get back in the gym, but with all this work during the day and all these sorority obligations after work…when do I find time?
- My boss is the most helpless, overly dependent human I know.
- My bonus better be BANGIN.
Rants
* I am tired as phuck today!! I turned my alarm off this morning and woke up when I normally leave. And I will NOT stay late to make up the time. Thank goodness being salary allows me to work as little or much as I want.
* I need ideas for a Halloween costume. All I know is that I want a wig to be a part of the outfit.
* I am going to Chicago for work next Thursday, but my boss is going with me. I hope he doesn’t expect me to spend the evening with me, I will DEFINITELY be hitting the streets…without him
* I have so much schoolwork this weekend, but I don’t think I am going to get half of it done. It’s the 3rd week, and I haven’t bought nary book. Why must they be so expensive???
* TO go out tonight? That is the question.
Dude, you got played by a chick? Come on pimp, this shit is a disaster. She not only played y’all she exploited you in a major way. Despite their scheming are really not that clever…read your own post…you ignored clear and frequent signs she was gaming you. As a rule I disclose very little about myself and my biz until I’ve got their heart firmly inside my fist. It’s a game bruh and you gotta play it raw and ruthless. Don’t fall in love with these broads…you took an L on this one don’t be mad, charge it to the game.
” As a rule I disclose very little about myself and my biz until I’ve got their heart firmly inside my fist. It’s a game bruh and you gotta play it raw and ruthless.”
oh …imma gonna be sick…
its so cold in this house right now. Can we turn the heat on, pop a few logs in the fire. Bake some cookies, some bread, break out the hot cocoa, the wine…the heroin…the morphine…the crack…the glue..
@FeFe
BT is SBM’s (all these acronyms) real world friend that he used to date. RD is SBM’s blog friend.
BT (real person) posed as RD (blog person) for some reason - carrying on conversations and what not as if she is two diff ppl. BT (real) lied to SBM about being RD (blog). And, posing as the blog friend, lied to SBM’s homey about being the real world ex.
I must admit I’m more of a lurker than a commenter, I can’t keep up with the comments all the time but I do enjoy reading.
@SBM - that’s some really jacked up stuff you went through, it’s tough to admit but some of us chicks do some crazy things, LOL.
My random thoughts:
-Thank God it’s payday and Friday - sweet combination!
-I’m excited about my propsects,now it’s time to close the deal!
-I never did get to use that coupon at Old Navy - damn clerk wasn’t having it, but I still got a good deal on my dark jeans.
-My blood pressure has been a lil high, that worries me.
-I went to a health seminar yesterday and calculated how many times I sit down throughout the day (in the car, at work, at breakfast, lunch, dinner, watching tv/net surfing, and then sleep) aaaahhhh!!!!
-I’m hitting the gym regularly now but will plan to use 7 flight of stairs instead of the elevator at work to boost movement throughout the day
-I miss him and I shouldn’t - does that mean I haven’t moved on? ah hell.
@ cuzzo: ok i got it clear now. i still stand my my assertion that SBM is just uber emo
@Westindian
“I never did get to use that coupon at Old Navy - damn clerk wasn’t having it”
I hope you did not get irate with the clerk cuz you know u were wrong, lol.
And, I do not think that means you haven’t moved on. You may just be lonely. We don’t always want what’s good for us during lonely times.
@FeFe
“SBM is just uber emo”
There’s nothing wrong with being emotional - being mad is an emotion, hell being indifferent is an emotion too. I don’t think he’s crying about it. If a dude u were feeling at one point did this to you…all to try to holla at ure friend (or whatever reason which does not seem clear to me in this situation), you wouldn’t be mad?
oh rant - I’m going low-carb for one week - it’s day two and I WANT BREAD!
tryna flatten my tummy a bit for this dress I’m going to wear to a party next week.
@Cuzzo: THanks for breaking it down. Sorry about all the acronyms, but I didn’t want to even hint at real or fake names.
And it was hard as hell for me to even keep track of it all. Took like 3 pass throughs to get it right.
@FeFe: What is a dramatization? LOL. Gonna hold on until the very bitter end I see. Your “sister”!
@Cuzzo: What ever happened to you coming to visit Bmore and this big bday dinner?
@Kwame: While she definitely “got me” … I wasn’t played. She had been begging me to be with her in a relationship and would get mad when I told her it wouldn’t work. I don’t know why she felt leading a dual life would help her … but go figure. Like Westindian Lady said … women do crazy things.
LOL @ normal lies.
@SBM
“Me and my friend promised to stop dating crazy chicks back in 2006″
u renigged BIG TIME! Now when someone that doesn’t know the person, upon first speculations calls them psycho…run like hell. Next time, I will hang up the phone for you if I feel my spidey sense tingling.
@ SBM and Cuzzo: i think its emo because 1) its not true and 2)if it were true i would say… who cares… get over it… its a blog that got intertwined with real life. there is no violation here.
sorry i just dont see it. i think that the whole issue is so wack that there is no need to even attach a feeling toward it.
maybe i’ve just experienced enough in life to know whats worth giving energy and emotion to and whats not. and in this case… i just think its not worth it.
tis all. oh and if wack is an emotion… then i guess i am emo about it too :p
i really “heart” how fridays are my BUSIEST day..errybody else is chillin…im working wit people who wanna launch shyt by tues. so EVERY dang thing that was broke..which takes a long time to fix. gotta work by 4pm EST COB
why?? and how??
and i love working wit vendors/partners who try an sneak info out thats currently under patent pending..you AINT slick…tryna ask hypotheticals..you aint slick.
@FeFe
“if it were true i would say… who cares… get over it… its a blog that got intertwined with real life. there is no violation here.”
I think that you are being biased. But, you think I am being biased too, don’t you?
Just because you don’t care about something, doesn’t mean it’s something not care about to someone else. Ope well, FeFe doesn’t care so I should get over it. um, no. How you gonna be mad at someone for shedding their light on a situation?
Yes it is wack that a female had to lie like that…so wack of her…so so wack.
@Britt: I’m sorry … but I will never tell the woman I love she looks fat no matter how bad she looks at the time.
@FeFe: Lol … funny you think I’m emotional. I will say I am utterly amazed at this act of just pure insanity. Who creates a whole separate persona and interacts with somebody as two different people … with each person talking about the other.
I got fake pictures, fake names, a fake email address, and was even offered to have a teleconference call with this fake person. I even got emails from the fake person asking why they were blocked.
Anyways … had she just taken her blocking like a big girl and disappeared … I wouldn’t have had to write anything. But I want people to know that she was lying to me and them and let the truth be put out there.
Being her partner in crime … just let it go. Why come here and continue to make personal attacks? She lied … a lot … to a lot of people … why are you defending her?
@Comeback
“A lie is a lie. There are no “normal lies” and not normal lies. fyi.”
tis true, but there still are extremities in lying.
No rants, don’t care.
Not in the mood thanks.
Cuzzo thank you for acknowledging my comment..i was beginning to think they were getting lost in the sea of other comments.
can someone validate my blog feelings on #50…im not feeling how people skipped that.
And the drama continues….
Can someone please hit me up on the space when this ish is over? Until then I will NOT be visiting.
Thanks.
@Comeback
“can someone validate my blog feelings on #50″
lol. u’re too funny.
@Humble
The storm is not over yet. She just will not back down. It should be back to sunshine and roses after the weekend. Go to mama Comeback…she’ll help you weather the storm. I believe she has a blog today for you celibates.
@Comeback
“can someone validate my blog feelings on #50″
lol. u’re too funny.
@Humble
The storm is not over yet - she will not back down. It should be all sunshine and roses (and backshots) again in after the weekend.
Meanwhile, go to mama Comeback, she’ll help you weather the storm. I believe she has a blog tribute today for the celibates.
@SBM
…and another thing! lol
“@Comeback
“can someone validate my blog feelings on #50″
lol. u’re too funny.”
just tryna change the subject a little.
@Daisy: OK OK OK … I’m done. How is your day and thanks for adding me back on “the space”. And I once had sex so good I almost cried … it was bad. Grown ass man broke down over that good good.
@Comeback: Luckily I don’t have to deal with subcontractors … but I’m usually the one in their shoes over selling capabilities and making promises. Sometimes you just gotta say yes and then make it work.
@Jac: We moving on sweetheart … I know you got something to rant about.
@Cuzzo: The storm is over and I’m waiting for sunshine.
Which reminds me about a certain missing persons …
@SBM
yeeeaaa, that visit keeps getting pushed back. But, I’m still coming for dinner. You lined up any non-Alpha reggie bush look-a-likes for me? ok wait, they can be Alpha…just not toooo Alpha.
Sunshine is LURKING! LOL
ahhhh sweet sunshine - the only woman to morph from a duck to a butterfly.
ok, that’s the last time I’m going to mention that ( maybe)
@SBM
Nicki is actually doing work today…didn’t u read her rant? smh
rant #3, piggybacking off the last rant. I don’t want to pay $9 for a salad from Cosi but dammit I’m hungry.
@cuzzo: “ahhhh sweet sunshine - the only woman to morph from a duck to a butterfly”
HHHAAAAA. shut up. I didn’t proofread this morning..
@SBM and Cuzzo: I’m working for DA MAN and trying to avoid the “stuff.” I don’t work well in it and confrontation… it makes my stomach hurt.
@SBM: I was just about to ask was it possible for a man to cry because he got some that was THAT good. If it is, I must find some of that before I die.
SBM:Oh no, not cause I’m in a bad mood…I was slightly *whispers* hungover.
The sisters known as rum and vodka were still talking to me.
-I love my job.
-Some of the people here make great real life friends that I wouldn’t take anything for.
-Going to lunch with my boss now
@Jac: Not the sisters! Don’t be flirting with the boss
@Cuzzo: ugly duckling to a swan!!!!
GOT IT NOW
@SBM phrat you gotta let the bad things go, at least you got to let it out of your system via blog. On my site we go toe to toe, you talk bad about the blog or my writers, we give you the business. I was told one time that I was too mean so I deleted the post but hey sh*t happens.
Rant:
I hate wack bosses that talk all tuff cause it’s work but you know they are punks in their real life
@NoMore
“I was just about to ask was it possible for a man to cry because he got some that was THAT good. If it is, I must find some of that before I die.”
oh lord, another reason women will always be potential GF until this one comes along. (I get on you a lot about that potential GF, don’t I?
)
@Nicki
I said swan like 5 million years ago. lol
ooh ..this reminds me of my old messageboard stuff
happened a lot back in the day there
lol
@Cuzzo: “I said swan like 5 million years ago. lol” Girl, my attention span is BAAADDDD…. I’m over here browsing.. blame it on Chemistry.. I promise I’ve gotten dumber since the semester started.
Okay so somewhere up there SBM gave us permission to get off topic since there is no forum yet, and since i am tired of listening to people point fingers and call each other liars and all that other JUNK ima ask a question so we can all be happy lovey people….
IF i decided to go spend Saturday night in Chicago next weekend (alone) what clubs do I want to go to? Keep in mind i don’t drink so drink prices = not a big deal i just want to go somewhere nice/fun.
SBM raise your right hand and repeat after me: I SBM Ruler of the jungle do solemnly swear to keep away from all said drama from here on out, until the dissolution of my blog…..
Sign here_____________
Sex that makes you cry? Yes thats a beautiful thing Heroes and if you haven’t had it you need to find it, otherwise your missing out.
QB to answer your question I suggest the funk budda lounge, they got good music and everybody LOVES dancing!!
also i know there is this one club that has like 3 floors, maybe someone here knows the name of it
@Mikki
everyone would need to sign that, including you
-I am so tired.
-I wish I could go to ATL with my friends this within. I hate being on a college budget.
-There is too much drama on a blog.
-Thank God the weather will be nice this weekend. Maybe I can go outside and play.
-I still want to go home
-I am really starting to like him way to much.
-I want some good loving this weekend.
-What should I cook today?
-Where is Teacia?
-I can’t believe I am turning 27 this month. I am almost 30, I really have to get on my shit.
my rant.
Can the simp go away? why am I suck a powerful brotha with 99% of the population and I can still get turned into a simp and get hustled with the oldest and most simplest shit EVER!?
Miss Alaska calls me lastnight. After posting like I didnt care that her ass hasnt checked in for a week I was like… sup? she then says shes in the area and will pick me up, she needs me to run an errand.
the trip ends in a detour to her house where she asks me if im hungry…. GAWD DAMNIT WOMAN YOU ALWAYS KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT!!! ya once inside I get fed… oh man food! then I get on the kitchen counter, cant even make it to the bedroom type sex…. then I get handed a paintbrush.
PAINTBRUSH.
can you help me paint?
what man after bein fed and fucked is gonna say no? I woulda said sure if she offered to castrate me at that point…. I may get a steak out of it or somethin!!!!!
so somehow, this turned from painting her island counter, to me buying new brushes and rolers and painting the whole living room… because it “was my idea after all”
I cant help but think this all took a wrong turn somewhere. Why am I spending money on paints and brushes for some woman? and forget buying the stuff….. why am I painting the entire house??
someone take my playa card and just rip it to pieces please
@Ms. D: Girl, boo. Try turning 28 next month. Still single, still no kids… (but I keep repeating, I am fabulous, I am fabulous.)
“I am really starting to like him way to much.”
Have fun with this thang… go with the flow, follow the queues, and have fun!
@HNIC: Awwww…. that is really sweet.
I’m glad to see it’s in ya.
grati-rant…i love my ma but she is a TALKER..i called to tell her that i wanted to take her and her bff to lunch tomorrow
and 45 minutes later..and past my lunch i was tryna take…with all this stuff im tryna do…
**can somebody validate this feeling im having**
VALIDATE ME…LOVE ME…SUPPORT MY FEELINGS..
**gotta go to lunch real quick*** be back later.
@Comeback: what feeling you have girlie?
@Nicki
“I am fabulous, I am fabulous”
I saw on Dr.Phil last night that mantras are stress relievers. It must work for you since u’re all sunshiny and shat everyday.
I want a mantra.
@HNIC. LOL. I wish I could front and say that never happened to me, but, I know the feeling.
@Cuzzo: You think I’m sunshiney??? well, SHAT, this stuff is working. LOL.
I’m fooling all of you.
J/K… my friends and family would be suprised to hear that… This man in the convention center (I take a pedway to work) told me that I had a glow and always seem so chipper every day. It bout knocked me off my feet.
IN real life, I’m more of the sarchastic funny… but i do love to laugh.
“@Comeback: what feeling you have girlie?”
like my comments are getting lost again…in the ocean of comments.
jfwy (just f’in wit yall)
@Comeback: Don’t be f’in with me.. I told you I’m getting dumber by the minute. My 3rd eye is broken until after finals.
@Nicki
Comeback was being her satirical self
@Comeback
“VALIDATE ME…LOVE ME…SUPPORT MY FEELINGS..”
girrrrlll stop! (no don’t actually) lol. SBM is gonna get some more angry email.
Comeback have a cookie luv
@Cuzzo “It should be all sunshine and roses (and backshots) again in after the weekend” I hope so. I HATE drama. You really know how I feel about backshots huh?
HNIC
thats why I dont want my man to have female friends..men are stupid when it comes to p***y..plain and simple..and are weak for it…sorry…but they are..can’t say I blame t them..look at us women
lol
anyhoo
i miss blogging..i gotta get internet at home. I used to steal it from the apt complex but they block everything too now..and its tough times for me..so i can’t afford it..my job blocks up from posting (not reading) blogs
*sigh*
that was my rant…
SBM..how nice are you
you should post my blogs for me if I send them to you
*damn that sounded desperate*
nevermind
I had to come back and read HNIC’s simp move again
its SOOOOO FUNNY
LMAO!!!
Yeah you got played
lol
*just envisioned Hasani in a painters getup, holding a brush n bucket*
thats just cute
ok im back from grabbing lunch. I would personally like to validate all the comments since I left. Nik, Cuz, True, HNIC, Mik and Humble
you are validated.
@Mik: Or butt naked painting? HNIC, were you butt naked painting??? HMMMM?????
can someone validate my validation
ok gotta go.
that is so ungrateful…i refuse to validate and re-validate ANY OF YOU EVER.
@Comeback: I’m gonna give you a double shot of whiskey.. that will validate ya.
lmao Nicki you would have to go there now wouldn’t u….
low key Hasani can you answer the question please, were you or weren’t you butt naked???
mm hmm
i should get me some male ” friends”
@Mik: Yes ma’am… I have an imagination. LOL
@SBM: personal attacks? calling you emotional is attacking you? wow.
ok. you win. no more personal attacks. i apologize for hurting you. it was not my intention to cause you grief.
the end.
happy friday everyone! its nice outside… enjoy the day
go hug someone. be loved. be free.
Ok so i was in the bathroom on my 15 minute break and i thought of a question while peeing.
To the males, I know this sounds kinda trivial but do you all care of a woman wears matching pantie sets?
and to the ladies, do you make it a point to match all the time or only if you know someone is going to see?
@FeFe: What self respecting black man wants to be known as emotional?
@True: I’m trying to get Humble’s post up, but he hasn’t replied to my reply and you know I’m always looking for stuff. So you have no way to post on your blog now?
@Mikki i only make it a point to match when i know somethin important is goin down that night… i mean i wear clean stuff all the time and try and match a lil bit but matching sets are only for special things…
and when I have asked my guy friends this question in the past I get the Katt Williams response… “if you have stretch marks it means one of two things - either you were big and got small or you were small and got big either way we still phuckin…”
@Mik: I only match when somebody is gonna see… Most of the time when I’m with a guy, I’m topless… I prefer to walk around that way…. reminds me of the African jungles.
hnic that story is highlarious. “dammit woman you always know the answer to that”…classic my friend.
Me being impartial to everything, this whole drama reminds me of when my parents divorced. I’m kinda bummed now that the people I had [interneturally] grown to know and have some cool images of are now…kinda disbanded. It happens though lol.
My whole theory about Why So Serious is that we shouldn’t take anything too seriously. Enjoy the time you have here, do all you can to make the world better, and be thankful.
All good things must come to an end. I believe that crisis and opportunity are one in the same. Through all this it’s good to see people starting new blogs, and forming new ideas. Which is what we were here for in the first place. At least that’s what drew me in.
I think this whole thing is the final sign to start my own blog. I got some cool ideas, and cool ways to present them. On this blog, we probably got future ceo’s, leaders, hell maybe the [second] black president. If I don’t become one, I damn sure want to spark them…Oh yeah, i’ll have random silliness too lol.
SBM thanks for the spark my friend. I’ll check the posts like I do [looking for humble's backshot appreciation day] I might comment occasionally too…but i see where the whole commenting thing got out of hand, even on my part. Later is later, and I’ll see you then….
why. so. serious?
I have no rants.
Just wanted to say I love this blog.
You all make my workday go by just a little bit faster.
Going back to lurking now….
dammmmiiitttttt! We are losing all of our testosterone!
QB i HEART YOU
Nicki no comment because you are just crazy
whyso, you inspire me to do betta even when i already think im the shat!!
@Mik: “Nicki no comment because you are just crazy”
That’s my blog persona…. LOL
Nicki I bet tit itz
@Mik: LOL. But seriously, we have eleven (count em) ELEVEN minutes to go. Yeahhhh-yaaaa.
@Comeback
“you are validated.”
Thanks hun. I’ll come back in from the ledge now.
rant #4 - ppl putting things on layaway. if it’s not a couple hundred dollars, don’t even bother putting it on lay-a-way, the moral of the story is u just can’t afford that sh!t. dammit! makin the lines all long at burlington coat factory for 2 coats and some lil boots that total $116. GTFOH!!!!
whew
@Mikki: Sounds like your about to lose your membership to the club.
But yes … matching pantie and bra’s are very sexy … but their not going to make my dick any harder at the end of the day.
@Humble
I think everyone knows! lol I’m not a dude but I’m all for it.
remember Patra?
Pull up to my bumper bay-bay
in ure long black limousine (ooh ooh)
Pull up to my bumper bay-bay
drive it in betweeeen (ooh ooh)
“dammmmiiitttttt! We are losing all of our testosterone!”
i can comeback as a guy on Mons, Thurs, And maybe sat morning…
i have a convertible pen!is that i usually park after 6pm..what say all yall.
at which time please do not post about Sports….maybe i can bring the gay man perspective who knows tons about other men and makeup.
***validate***
i will miss why though..if its not that serious REALLY, he should be able to post as he pleases.
@Comeback
“who knows tons about other men and makeup”
lol - this reminds of the dude on VSB yesterday talkin’ about his woman must wear MAC. I still cannot get over that one.
*you’ve just been validated by Cuzzo*
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHY PEOPLE DONT KNOW HOW TO READ DIRECTINOS AND THEN WANT TO THROW A FIT WHEN THEY GET AN “ERROR REPORT” FOR NOT FOLLOWING THE DIRECTIONS THAT ARE PERFECTLY CLEAR?!
yeah i know i need to get out of working in the call center.
@ Cuzzo i think that dude was playing. That was little extra extra. Some men use words (related to womanly things) and wear them them out-just to be like the master of all things womanly.
@QB its Friday..im over here on two conference calls at once. With somebody swearing up and down it works one way. When I know this shyt in my sleep. They are like debating me DOWN..making me question things ive been knowing for a long long time. And then coming around to what i said 4 hours ago. I could have been having my massage right now.
moral to the story people dont listen. and don’t be a woman and know ur shyt
Don’t be a woman? that one confuses me.
but this is getting really sad. we rolled out a new product, it has simple instructions, people be placing these orders like they have never placed an order for internet service for anyone ever before in their life and they been here for 20+ years. it just drives me crazy… spendin 10-12 hours a day reviewing orders people enter b/c they cant read directions.
its alot of old stuff. im not sure what its about.
i cant believe im still working on a beautiful friday at almost 5…this is my karma for messin around on the blogs
y did this lil old man just almost knock me down as we crossed the street, trying to get away from this dog approaching?
and y did this lady on the bus, sit on like half my leg? didn’t skooch over, apologize, or nuttin.
I NEED MY PERSONAL SPACE!
@WhySo: Let me know when the new spot is started and you got something I can feature. Also, keep me in mind for that collaboration down the line.
I hope your spot never goes through the growing pains that I had to suffer.
im done…until tomorrow morning LOL..have a good weekend. yall done drove me to nap and then drink.
@ cuzzo…did you write “skooch”????
have a goodweekend peeps.
And here’s my rant:
*I can’t stand people who say thEY want someone who is or has this & that..and they aren’t EVEN HALF of what they want in a mate?! Smdh
*Why is it that people you work with don’t live by the philosophy..WORK SMARTER, NOT HARDER?!
* PLEASE tell me WHY people drive 25 MPH on the FREEWAY & are DETERMINED to ride in the LEFT lane?!!! For those who don’t know, the LEFT most lane is for drivers who want to EXCEED the speed limit…PLEASE stay to the RIGHT if you want turn a 10 minute car ride into 1 that take 100 minutes!! Better yet, DON”T drive on the freeway at all!
* I CAN”T STANDDDDDDDDDDDD that Sweetest Day (for those who don’t know, it’s a holiday that’s celebrated in the Midwest, at least MI., on the 2nd Sat. of every OCt)is comin’ up & I don’t have a boo!!!!!!! UGH!!!!!!!
**On a positive note…MIKKIIIIIIIII…I LOVE YOU, SIS! I saw my tribute, you are so sweet! I feel the same, bestie..you KNOW that! You’ve made my day! And I’ll always be here when you need me (especially if I have to do a paint-by… LMAO).
*I’m greatful for my fam. as well!
my last rant of the day… this one is REALLY bothering me…
i have been CRAVING good chicken lately… CRAVING good chicken lately and every time i get chicken it’s bad. wrong. gross. i got Chicken from Bdubs the other day, it was dry, i got chicken from KFC the other day it was suppose to be “crispy” it was soggy, i got chicken from Bdubs again this time it tasted just nasty. I got chicken at Chili’s the other day and the batter they use to fry it was this lite fluffy junk it tasted like beer battered chicken - not what i was craving.
I am craving good chicken… that means i have to stay up until at list midnight and go to JINS…
Dang!!! I play catch up and come back to drama!
D your d#!% must be FIYAH!!! :oD Haha!
That was some straight FOOLISHNESS and Sybil needs to get a life!! LMAO!!
@Comeback
“did you write “skooch”????”
yes. it’s how I say scoot.
i know!! cuzzo. i thought that was cute. i had friend in college who used to say skooch to.