About
I’m single. I’m black. I’m a male. Being single all my life isn’t my goal … but I’m loving it now and its makes a catchy site name
Born in DC, raised in Maryland, with some prolonged visits around the country … I have amassed theories, observations, and beliefs on dating, love & life. The internet is the best medium to share ideas with the rest of the world, so I promise to deliver advice, theories, observations … but most importantly … A look at dating, love, & relationships from a Young Black & Male perspective … a rarity.
Me … I’m in my mid 20’s and a recent college grad. I’m your typical “knowledge worker” in Washington, D.C. I’m a programmer by trade and an undercover nerd, but my “Billy Dee Like” personality masks all of that.
If you want honest talk … from a male perspective … you have found the place.
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April 27th, 2008 at 7:18 pm
I love your site. I don’t understand why you feel the need to mask your nerdiness. I personally find a man that is well-read, inquisitive, worldly and articulate extremely attractive and many of my girlfriends do as well. I would like for you do to a piece on why so many young and middle aged black men don’t go to church. I’m not one who feels that people’s lives should revolve around church and that they show up everytime the doors open but I would just like some feedback about why a lot of single brothers don’t even show up a couple of Sundays out of a month.
April 28th, 2008 at 1:20 am
As someone who goes at least once a month … not sure I’m qualified to speak on brotha’s who don’t go to church.
May 13th, 2008 at 4:13 am
to a single black male. to me from what you are saying you are the type of brother who is what I refer to as looking excellent on paper. for me you wouldn’t have to mask your nerdiness because if a man can capture my mind he can have anything he wants. I’m so over hood brothers and have been for sometime but I do consider myself an EBP even though I may not have the same level of education as some of the men who approach me. I do find from time to time I run across men who think I’m not good enough for them because I have 2 children and have not been married to date. I am not a woman looking for a babys daddy or a replacement father.
I desire companionship and someone who will allow me to romance them and be deserving enough of all the things I would love to do for my man.
the bible says ” he that findeth himself a wife findeth himself a good thing” what I take from this is I should stand still and let my KING find me. how ever standing still has also gotten people run over from time to time if they don’t have the forsight to move out the way. never the less in 2008 I’m taking applications, no temp postion available only full time lovers wanted…
peace and blessings
A Sankofa Queen
May 20th, 2008 at 11:21 am
a toss up folk, chk out todays post men only
June 12th, 2008 at 8:14 am
Hello SBM
I recently came across your site while looking for a biker single site. However I took the time to stop and check it out and I must admit I like what I’ve read and will be returning often. And let me just add you are who you are if anyone doesn’t like it do you really care! Never mask who you are! If you’re happy with the person you are to hell with others. That’s just me and my 3 cents.