Single Black Male

I’ve never been afraid of dropping hints about the type of women I like. A few times I’ve made mention of my love for women older than me. One of my commenter’s, Tiffany, asked me to elaborate on this … so here is my investigation. Young women need not apply!

Before I start, I should clarify “older woman”. For this argument, lets look at 29 and older. This actually cuts out a few years that are older than me, but it will be easier to make my point with this range. Personally, I haven’t really dated anyone under 25 in awhile, but usually I am in the upper 20’s, but went all the way to the upper 30’s once. And I dealt with plenty of young 20 somethings in college … so I’ve run the range. I don’t want people to think I’m some young guy in his mid 20’s looking for 50+ women to take care of me.

Lets examine a couple of the major age groups, until we finally work our way up to those beautiful older women.

18-23 Women
Often in college or recently out of high school. She doesn’t know what she wants in life often and is still discovering herself. Sometimes she is lively, fully of energy, and looking to explore and see new things. She can be so much fun.
But … she is often immature and childish. Because she is discovering herself, he sense of self may be lacking. She doesn’t know what she wants, you can never read her, and she loves to play games. She loves to play games. She consults her “girlfriends” on everything, she is self consumed, and puts little value in the qualities that make a “good man”. She often wants someone to spoil her without her having to give anything in the relationship. Poor and misguided.
Here you will find women who love the asshole, the thug, and the wannabe gangster. Earning potential, manners, and acts of romance aren’t important … she is at her most superficial.

24 - 28
She has now realized what it actually takes to make a Good Man. She has some sense now (more…)

I was sitting on my balcony looking at the frozen lake behind my condo, sipping on a concoction of vodka and orange/mango juice, listening to screw.  As usual, chilling, embracing the cold in my North Face, and just thinking.  Here is a few points I thought I would share.

– I really want a girl who listens to screw.  The slowed down music made famous in the Houston region is my ultimate vice.  Don’t care if a budding black proffesional should be bumping Common or something conscious … gimme Mr. Michael “5000″ Watts all day.  Any girl who can tell me the original members of the “Color Changing Clique”, the “Boss Hogg Outlaws”, or can quote some classic Chamillionaire … please hit me up.  We might have a love connection.

– I’m glad I’m a moderately successful black male. With my pickiness and ability to lose interest with no warning … I’m glad there is an abundant of successful and available black women.  Don’t mean to throw it in ya’lls faces … but damn it feels good.

– I really do like older women.  Its like wine.  With age, the mental process strengthen, you know what you want, and your no longer held to some of the dumber “rules”, and your honest … and that honesty is often beautiful.

– I want to write a book.  I’ve always wanted to write a book.  A computer scientist writing a book on relationships … its so ironic its beautiful.  There will be an intro chapter explaining basic economic theory (I also studied economics). You would be surprised how well basic supply & demand apply to dating.

– I probably shouldn’t write posts while intoxicated. Hopefully it doesn’t show.  You tell me.

– After listening to Webbie’s  “Independent” a lot more … its not as empowering as I initially thought.  I mean … Boosie sounds like he just wants a sugar mama.  I still hold on to my dream though.

– I believe in prenuptials.  I’ll be damned if I’m getting married without one! As someone just told me … did Ms. Basketball player earn 50% of the 80 million?  Did she shoot a free throw? Was she up at 6am doing suicides?

Thats it.  Forgive any typo’s … not proofreading rantings … lol