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What do YOU have to say?

If most of you haven’t noticed … I often take Thursdays as my day of rest … but I hate the fact it leaves this whole in the week.  This site often keeps me going through the day … so these thursday lulls (although I kinda sorta get more work done) aren’t desirable.

So … I want to hear from you, your friends, your lovers, your cousin with the funny eye, and fellow bloggers.

Ever had something you wanted to get out but had no site of your own?

Ever had a really good conversation with your friends about dating that you wanted to get the opinion of another coupe hundred people on?

Ever think “This b*tch ass ninja SBM aint sh*t!  I could write way better stuff then him”?

Well … here is your chance (and it better be some hot sh*t if your the last one).  I want to start highlighting other writers and blogs on thursdays.  If you have something out there you already wrote and meshes well with the site, tell me and I’ll put the post here and a link back to your site and content.  Got something new and original you want out there … send it in and I’ll give you credit and links back to your home or business.

I have already gotten some stuff and just gotta shift and work it out.  But Ima get around it … stop pressin me!

So … sbm@singleblackmale.net is the email address.  Let me know what you got and if your interested.

Generally looking for about 300-500 words and it needs to be based on dating, relationships, marriage, and all that good sh*t.  I am a mean sumbitch … but I’ll try and be nice if I can’t use it.  Try …

Comeback tomorrow for the world renowned (YEAH … WORLD!) Friday “Rantings of an SBM” and come share with the family.

“Gimme Gimme One More Chance”: SBM Answers

Sorry for that little hiatus. Besides the fact that there was just way too much going on … I also didn’t mention I was going to Puerto Rico for the past couple of days. I’m so relaxed now … so relaxed.

So, a faithful reader sent me an email saying:

Ok she was kicking it with a dude like 2 years ago, and some how the ex got hold of her phone and searched her current mates number and called it. The guy ended up breaking it off with her because of this phone call. She dunno what her ex said to him but she figure it was something along the lines of why you callin my woman type deal.

She really liked dude and til this day she wonders what coulda been. She feels like she didnt get a chance to plea her case about what happen and she needs closure but he wont return calls, or respond to emails. If you was him what would you do? would you give her a chance to explain. I mean I know females come a dime a dozen but this one mighta been a keeper and her ex fucked it up. Can you atleast hear her out??

Honestly, I don’t have no sympathy for the chic. Maybe its my Ice Cold demeanor … maybe its the lack of emotions … maybe its some deep seated misogyny … who knows.

Personally, the whole situation is highly suspect. How does your ex of 2 years get your phone? Why does he know the name of your current “mate”? What did you do to him that was so foul that he feels the need to call and warn this new person? How serious was your “situation” that he cut you off without so much as a “break up” call?

The whole thing reeks. I really don’t trust the girl as some innocent person and if whatever the ex said was good enough … then so be it. I am generally a firm believer of cutting people off. I am also a believer of cutting people off without an explanation if they don’t deserve an explation.

Sorry … but I guess your girl just didn’t deserve an explanation (and know the “She really liked dude” carries no weight)!