Single Black Male

Very Smart Brotha’s touched on interracial dating recently, and damned if they didn’t spell it out in very simple terms why many of us have dated outside the race.

Watching this clip brought me back to college really quick.  I went to a PWI (predominantly white institute) … so interracial dating and “hooking up” was very popular.  I was in the car with my ex and we’re driving past some bars.

“Thats a damn shame” she utters
“Yeah … its a rack of people out”
“No … not that.  I’m talking about them” as she points her fingers to 2 black guys talking to 3 white girls
“What’s wrong with that” I ask
“They’re trying to talk to white girls. F*cking Punks”

Now … I can’t help but agree with VSB, we are men first.  Outside of a club, trying to go home with something, race just isn’t a major driving force.  Don’t get mad at him … its his choice.  If he preaches of the greatness of white women … different story … but let him get some head tonight.

Thanks to Hasani for the link.

Why is there so much anger to interracial dating from Black Women?  Why is it wrong to honestly like someone outside the race?  Are all black women really angry, or is that an unfair stereotype?

There has been a decent amount of talk about my personal taste in music … so I decided to take it back to one of the classics … a true great in the history of ignorance music.

Not only did this dance have scores of people doing a simple dance that consisted of looking from side to side and snapping, it also managed to coin a new slang term … “Laffy Taffy”. It also stands as one of the best strip club songs of all time.

Another thing I never hear anyone talk about is the copious amounts of sexual references.

“Girls call me Jolly Rancher cause I stay so hard”
“You make it skeet skeet skeet like a water hose”
“I’m gonna toss it, flip it, and stab it”

Enjoy for now … I promise … no more ignorance tomorrow!

This one is short and sweet, but I thought I’d share this with my family as I plan to head to Myrtle Beach for the craziness of Black Bike Week. I know this is gonna happen to me at least 4 times while down there (happened like 6 times last year … but I’m on the lookout for it this time).

Someone sent me this as just a random video on youtube that was funny, but I couldn’t help but think of the bigger issue behind the concept.

To those who can’t or don’t care to watch it, here is the story:

- Man comes back from club
- The girlfriend has been sent pictures of her boyfriend talking to another women by her best friend
- In order to dispel her suspicions … she demands her boyfriend to drop his pants and let her smell his dick (operating under the premise it still smells like pussy)

Generally speaking its a bootlegg music video and the general ignorance of the song is the reason I weep for hip hop (although I am still a Webbie fan), but there is a significantly more important question it made me thinkg about …

Does his refusal to let her smell her dick imply that he was guilty?

Generalized further …

Is the defense of “you should trust me” and “I’m mad you asked me that” a valid defense, or does this just mean your guilty?

I’d answer the question … but honestly … I’m not sure

I have admitted my love for Jia of Jia TV a long time ago, but I figured I would share a video that I thought was funny … in order to keep things light and show that its not always serious with me.

Honestly … if I was given the offer … I would take it without much hesitation. I’m not lazy, but damn if the extra money and good p*ssy wouldn’t help keep me from losing my sanity.