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***NOTE***  There is a new poll question.  Interracial dating anyone? ****

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I don’t know what made me suddenly remember this BET Uncut classic … but this video was played for years on the show.

Who can forget the hook …

White girlllllllllls, (Suzy,Jen, and Karen)
Going through my miiiiiind, (Sarah, Jesse and Julie, too)
White girlllllllllls, (Judy,Beth, and Sharon)
Help me unwiiiiiiind (The more I see the more I do)
Don’t tell Minister Farrakhan (That’s right)
He don’t wanna know what’s going on (Ok)
Cuz white girllllllllllls, won’t go away..

No deep message here.  No hidden truth that I’m bringing to the masses.  No movements, directives, or calls to action … just a light skinned guy rapping a whole song about his love for white girls.

Ok … maybe a little analysis …

You gotta commend the guy for not talking bad about black women in the entire video.  Even with the claims of many of the black female members of the SBM family and that I’ve encountered in life (who say they have no problem as long as black women aren’t bashed) … I can’t help but foresee many black women getting mad at this video.

Should this black man be lambasted for his preference in women?  Does the fact that he is half white justify his love?

Makes ya think …

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Its Friday again … so time to release so stress at the end of the week.

  • I haven’t admitted it … but I love white women.  My last girlfriend was caucasian and while I do date black women, they have continued to depress me and convince me why I will marry a white woman.  Last black woman I dated, asked her to make me a sandwhich … and she laughed.  My ex was making me them after 2 weeks.  Would have made a whole post on it … but thats doing too much.
  • I barely go to the club anymore.  I feel like I’m way too young to have outgrown the club, but damn if it just doesn’t do it for me.  I used to love crowded clubs (I’m a big guy so I just moved people) … but now I can’t stand people touching me.  Its hot, I want to sit down, and damn if girls at the club don’t even do it for me.  Besides … women aint touching their toes anymore … whats the point.
  • I was joking about the white woman thing.  I love my Nubian Queens (unless your an angry bitter b*tch … can’t stand ya’ll).
  • I miss my old car.  I had an Acura TL, sold her for something “practical”, then got so bored I bought a motorcycle.  Now I miss her … soooooooo much!
  • I really love breasts.  I just don’t understand why so many guys are ass men.  I will admit that a great ass can make you double take quicker then nice breasts … but when it matters (sex) … the breasts offer hours of fun.  You can push em up … down … around … squish them together … pull them apart … the options are endless.  An ass … you can smack it … what else?
  • “My Dougie … My Dougie … My Dougie … she says she likes my Dougie (I’m fresh) … My Dougie (I’m Fresh) … I’m Flyer than a motherf*cker!”
  • My “first” didn’t believe I was a virgin.  She refused to believe that I had never had sex with anyone else.  You would think hearing something like that could make you lazy … happy … complacement.  But not me … felt like I had a bar to meet now.  Just so she never saw a “degradation” in quality, I analyzed everything I did, identified the good things, and dropped the bad.  That is the reason I now waaaaaayyyyyyy overthink sex.  I guess the satisfaction of others at the cost of myself … eh.

Thats it for me.  I feel a lot better.

Now … good people of singleblackmale.net … family … whats on your mentally checked out, is it 5 o’clock yet, I don’t want to be here, the weekend started at 9am, ITS FRRRIDDDDAAAYYY mind.

RANT!!!

-SBM

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Very Smart Brotha’s touched on interracial dating recently, and damned if they didn’t spell it out in very simple terms why many of us have dated outside the race.

Watching this clip brought me back to college really quick.  I went to a PWI (predominantly white institute) … so interracial dating and “hooking up” was very popular.  I was in the car with my ex and we’re driving past some bars.

“Thats a damn shame” she utters
“Yeah … its a rack of people out”
“No … not that.  I’m talking about them” as she points her fingers to 2 black guys talking to 3 white girls
“What’s wrong with that” I ask
“They’re trying to talk to white girls. F*cking Punks”

Now … I can’t help but agree with VSB, we are men first.  Outside of a club, trying to go home with something, race just isn’t a major driving force.  Don’t get mad at him … its his choice.  If he preaches of the greatness of white women … different story … but let him get some head tonight.

Thanks to Hasani for the link.

Why is there so much anger to interracial dating from Black Women?  Why is it wrong to honestly like someone outside the race?  Are all black women really angry, or is that an unfair stereotype?

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